Is your man cheating on you? 10 signs he does!

10 legit signs your beloved significant other is being disloyal behind your back.

Here are the 10 signs when women cheat on men, but what about when men cheat on women?

Betrayal from your loving partner is horrible, and only a person who has experienced it can tell you how painful it really is. No matter how much we despise it, and do our best to avoid such situations, we still end up hurt. Still, infidelity is a natural behavior, and it doesn’t care about race, religion, or heritage.

On the contrary, we take advantage of such behaviors and categorize them into patterns that are universal among people, and can make it easy to predict their behavior. In this article, we gathered the 10 signs men display when they cheat.

Although, to be honest, I never thought women would need such an article, as they have tremendous social and body language interpretation skills, and know exactly what their man is up to. However, in case you’re a woman that is too oblivious or simply “blinded” by love, then we’re here to open your eyes.

1. His stories are inconsistent

man explains to distrustful woman — *Sometimes, less is more.*

Men tend to stutter or make up lies on the spot to avoid confrontation. Even well-thought lies don’t usually add up under female scrutiny. If his whereabouts don’t make logical sense, especially if lately he’s started to hang out too much with his friends, then he’s probably committing misdeeds. What’s also noticeable is his eyes avoiding looking at you when he tries his best to manipulate you.

2. He takes care of himself more than usual

man with grey beard and hair is grooming himself — *Where are YOU going like that?*

When men and women are in long-term relationships, they tend to let themselves go. If he starts dressing nicer, getting fresh haircuts, wearing perfumes, or shaving his private parts, then it’s definitely a reason to worry about.

3. He hides or locks his phone

flipping phone facedown cheating meme — *At least he didn’t throw it in the toilet.*

If he hides his phone, and takes it with him everywhere, even in the bathroom, then there’s something that he doesn’t want you to find out. It’s even more obvious, if he sets a new lock-screen password. His time spent on the phone has also dramatically increased, and if you try to confront him, he will anxiously lie to you while hiding the phone. An easy way to catch him red-handed, is by grabbing his phone when he’s not paying attention to his surroundings.

4. He is constantly annoyed by you

man annoyed by woman in bed — *He’s tired from his “other”activities. Let him rest.*

If he starts avoiding you, keeping distance between you two, acting hostile, or showing little tolerance towards you and the things you do, then he might want you out of the picture altogether. Passive aggressiveness is also present in men. Though, men tend to show a bit more obvious annoyance towards their partner. Hence, it should be a concern if he avoids any interaction with you or feels irritated by it.

5. Your sex life becomes irregular

al bundy after having sex with peg — *How did he explain this incredible mood?*

Your sex life can be affected in two ways when your man is cheating: increased libido, or total abstinence. The difference is whether he is cheating for pleasure or emotional reasons. If he just wants to satisfy his biological needs, then he’ll initiate sex more than before. He’s probably learned new tricks as well.

On the other hand, if your sex life has become nonexistent, and he avoids touching you, then it means that he has found a person he loves.

Another thing to keep in mind, is if he’s suddenly stopped complaining about sex. This means that all his sex problems have been solved (by someone).

6. He lies more than usual

big nose liar man — *Pinocchio would be jealous.*

This is exceptionally visible in men who generally don’t lie. Their lack of skill in lying will show, and you’ll also notice that he’s started to lie also about little things due to his new habit. Expect him to lie about his whereabouts, his work schedule, the people he meets, his newly found hobbies, the people who texted or called him, and, basically, everything.

7. He spends too much time at “work”

man sexually touching a woman on his desk — *He’s already had “dinner.”*

If the office hours have suddenly increased, or if “late office hours” comes into play, then something is fishy.

Overtime can be a good excuse for some men, and they usually have a colleague covering for them. It works well because their woman knows that they can’t skip work, unlike everything else, so they swallow every excuse they make about their boss keeping them late at work.

8. He spends less time with the children

father sits on couch on his laptop and ignores son — *Who’s this kid?*

If you have children together, then you might notice his negligence towards your children and their needs. He’s also drastically reduced the time he spends with them. A man who cheats is preoccupied with other things, and doesn’t have the time to deal with children.

9. He gets upset when confronted

man is upset from a woman talking to him — *You’re just ruining his mood. Let him fantasize about the mistress.*

If you confront him or outright tell him about your suspicions, he will try to avoid you, call you paranoid or crazy, or get mad at you for asking such things. Keep in mind that an honest man fears nothing, and if he is telling the truth, he won’t avoid holding a calm discussion with his woman.

10. There is “hard evidence”

woman confronts a cheating man with his phone messages and calls — *“It wasn’t me. Somebody else took my phone and typed those things.”*

If you smell a woman’s perfume on his clothes, if there are lipstick marks, or hair on his jacket that doesn’t match yours, then it’s a no-brainer that he’s cheating on you. Check for marks on his body as well, such as nail or bite marks. Some mistresses like to mark their new “victims.”

Other hard evidence includes: suspicious contacts on his phone, unknown numbers calling his phone, profiles he’s chatting with, contacts that don’t appear to be who they claim, or similar.

Conclusion

Nothing guarantees whether your man is cheating or not, but if you see one or more of the above signs, then at least there is a reason for concern. As I have mentioned in other articles, your “gut” feeling is your subconsciousness telling you that something isn’t right, and you should be alarmed. So, trust it next time. Only you know your man so well as to understand discrepancies in his behavior and figure out the cause.

What other signs do you think we should mention?

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