How to flirt with her in 6 easy steps?

How to be flirtatious and seductive? Here are 6 simple things you can do to make her like you.

One of the most common difficulties when talking to a woman is how to be flirtatious and seductive. Some guys don’t even go that far. But, for the ones that do manage to do that, we have some tips that will help them stand out from the rest.

1. Joke around

man makes blonde woman laugh — *Making her laugh is the fastest way to her heart.*

“Women love to laugh” is a phrase that you’ve heard too many times, and it’s true for a reason. All people love to laugh, but women like it even more if it comes from the man they’re interested in. Laughing is one of the best ice-breakers and has a great impact on shaping her initial opinion about you. It will brighten up the mood, and will make you stand out. Once the ice is broken, she’ll be more willing to further engage with you, and drop her defenses.

Be careful, though, corny jokes or memorized phrases will do the opposite. The point isn’t to tell any joke, but to be playful, and make fun of things that are relevant and appropriate to the situation. Keep in mind her reactions, and apologize if you overdo it. Other than, if she’s giggling, then keep going.

2. Be a mystery man

man in black suit approaches romantically a blondfe woman in a black dress — *Be a temptation; a mystery box she wants to open.*

Being an “open book” isn’t much of a challenge. Every woman wants to slowly find out everything about you, in a playful but indirect way. Revealing everything too soon, and you will blow everything away without leaving much for discussion. At the same time, you have to understand the game and play it properly, as she expects this from you. Avoid blabbering on and on, especially if she doesn’t look interested. Remember to remain playful. You can make her complete a made-up challenge, and as a reward, you reveal more about yourself. For example, if she wants to find out your dog’s name, she has to give you her number.

3. Be insightful

man thinking with visible neuron activations — *Sometimes, you just need to be able to pick up the cues.*

Normally, understanding what she’s saying and the meaning behind it requires some skill. As we mentioned earlier, women don’t like short and direct games. Sometimes they even like to ask you trick questions to make you reveal things you don’t want to. Reading between the lines is one of the most important techniques you have to develop when talking to women. If you were good at it, you probably wouldn’t even need to read this article.

You need to decipher her spoken language as well as her body language. You need to notice every movement she makes and every phrase she says. Practice makes good, and you need to apply it here. Don’t worry if you don’t get it right the first time. Nobody does. However, engaging in conversations with various women, will give you a good hint on how to handle things.

4. Be sexual

a man in a blue suit seduces blonde woman in white shirt by whispering into her ear — *Mindf*ck her.*

Another problem I’ve seen with men who try to approach women, is that they seldom get sexual with them. They either quickly back off from making a move, apologize when they make a dirty joke, or even worse, they never make a move at all. You may be a smooth talker and a good listener. You may even make her laugh like crazy, but if you never show that you consider her as a potential romantic partner, she will brush you off as some dumb person or put you in the “friend zone” (men who don’t excite her).

You already have her attention, so now you need to convey to her your intentions. Be more intimate with her, and step into her comfort zone by slowly revealing what you want from her. Chances are, you won’t regret it. If she likes you, she has already thought about it a long time before you did.

5. Make physical contact

man in a white shirt with a red rose in his mouth dances with a white haired woman — *Grab her by the waist like a strong and confident man.*

Women pay extra importance to physical contact. Has a female friend of yours ever touched you on your shoulder when she joked about something? She’s probably done it, but that didn’t phase you. However, for women, such gestures convey great meaning. Physical contact, such as: holding her from the waist, touching her hands, gently stroking her hair, or whispering in her ear, will surely communicate to her your intentions, and even sweep her off her feet.

Try to touch her in a discreet and respectful manner, and see how she reacts. If she accepts it without saying anything, then keep going because she likes what you’re doing. Don’t wait for her to explicitly tell you to continue. If she doesn’t like it, she’ll move your hand away or create some distance between you. Whatever you do, don’t ask her if it’s “OK” to touch her. Beta males are a big turn-off. Women like confident men who aren’t afraid of approaching her, physically and mentally.

6. Make your move

man in a black suit is ready to kiss a woman with closed eyes — *Look her into the eyes, pull her towards you, and go for the kiss.*

It’s time to show her your resolve. This is probably a kiss on the lips or an invitation to have sex, depending on the situation. If you’ve checked all the above points, it means you’ve already reached your target, and she’s waiting for you to do the rest. If you don’t, you’ll get her perplexed or disappointed, and she’ll never want to see you again. So, there is nothing to be afraid of anymore. Just grab her waist, pull her close to you, and kiss her.

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