Are you having doubts about your partner’s loyalty? 10 signs she is being unfaithful behind your back.

We’ve discussed the 10 clues when a man is cheating on his partner, but what about women? We have gathered the 10 most common red flags that show she’s cheating on you.

Cheating is dreadful, and only the ones who have experienced it can tell you how horrible and painful the betrayal of their partner feels. It’s a reason many relationships end, and others begin. That’s the natural cycle.

Speaking about “natural”, we humans tend to have certain behaviors that are quite common among us in various situations. No matter our country, our race, or our heritage, we act the same in certain social situations. This can serve as an advantage, as we can extract useful information, and map the common patterns when a person conducts a “misdeed”, such as adultery. It doesn’t really matter if two people are just dating or married because those symptoms are universal.

That’s why we’ve prepared the 10 most common patterns of a woman cheating on you. There’s no guarantee that it’s happening to you, but if you tick most of the points below, then it’s a good indication that you should start worrying about it. Keep in mind that the signs can be very subtle, therefore, you have to be thorough and account for the fact that women don’t like to actively show their intentions or wrongdoings. Even if they were to tell you, they’d rather do it gradually and passively, by preparing the “ground” for when the right time comes to reveal everything.

1. She starts taking care of herself

beautiful and sexy woman in a long dress and black high heels sitting in front of a mirror — *She’s dolling up for a reason (image by AllClear55 from Pixabay).*

Women tend to slightly let go of themselves while they’re in a long-term relationship or marriage. So, if you see her getting dolled up after so long, and without any obvious reason, then you should know that maybe her reason is the attention she is getting from another man. It’s even worse, if she never was a person that would take care of herself so much.

2. She is ignoring you

woman in red shirt raising hand and ignoring her male partner — *She obviously doesn’t care about what you’re saying.*

If you’re talking to her and she doesn’t even bother listening to you, then it means you’re not the one she wants to talk to or think about. She might pretend she didn’t hear you or make up any excuse just to avoid you. She simply doesn’t want to waste any time or energy on you. Normally, women seek their partner’s validation and attention, and would love to hear what their partner thinks all the time. Doing the complete opposite, is a strong indicator that she is no longer interested in you.

3. She takes too long to respond

woman drinks beer with her lover while husband is calling on the phone — *When hubby is calling you.*

Similar to the point above, if she takes too long to reply or answer the phone while she’s obviously online, then that’s a good indication that you’re interrupting her from something more interesting than you. It can be phone calls, instant messenger, a reply to a comment, or anything that deviates from her normal behavior.

4. She spends too much time with her “friends”

Her “girls’ night out.”

If she starts going out more frequently with her friends and stays out late with them, or if she has some new male friend she’s hanging out with, it’s a red flag. Be careful of the typical “he’s just a friend” cliché. He is not. Most likely, his true status will be revealed once she’s ready to tell you.

Young woman in blue blazer forgets on a yellow background — *Did she forget your name?*

If she starts “forgetting” anniversaries or genuinely forgets things that used to be important to you two, then she’s definitely lost her interest in you. That can include even packing your lunch before you go to work.

6. She blames you for random things

Young couple arguing and yelling on each other — *A woman blaming her man (image by adobestock.com).*

When she starts blaming you for things that you didn’t do or exaggerates about the ones you did, then this implies that she’s trying to create a negative situation and take it on you. Unjustified hostility means she wants you out of her sight, but can’t quite find a valid reason to make you leave. It can also mean that she’s trying to act badly in order to sabotage your relationship, so she can break up with you even easier.

7. Her sex routine changes dramatically

woman having a headache next to her partner in bed — *If she can’t even stand you, you’re in trouble.*

It goes without saying that at this point she definitely wouldn’t want to get intimate or have sex with you if someone else is rocking her world. This is a sure sign, as loss of physical interest means she no longer sees you as her romantic partner. You’d be mistaken if you think women don’t value physical contact as much as men. They do even more than us, and they certainly don’t like getting intimate with anybody but the person they have feelings for. Guess what that means for you.

On the other hand, a woman that suddenly acts like a slut and is eager to ride you every 10 minutes, can also be a negative sign. Sometimes, women are feeling so happy with the new guy that they will share it with you in the bedroom. It’s similar to an adrenaline rush.

8. She constantly gets in fights with you

woman and man couple arguing while sitting — *Every little thing is annoying her.*

If you’re constantly fighting with her without some apparent reason, then it means she’s trying to drive you away from her to make room for someone else. Overall, unfounded passive or active aggressiveness towards you, is not a good sign as it shows that she no longer has feelings for you, and wants you out of her life. It can also indicate guilt, as she feels bad for what she’s doing and vents her displeasure on you.

Another reason is she might be trying to escalate situations all the time on purpose, just to make you be the one who breaks up after so much frustration. It’s easier, and it will save her from appearing as the guilty one.

9. She stops taking care of the children

woman in red blazer looks at phone and ignores her daughter — *She is too much in love to be paying attention to her child.*

In case you two have children, and you start seeing her neglecting the kids for other activities, such as doing her hair, doing her nails, or shopping for clothes, then something is fishy for sure. In other cases, she might be venting her frustration and anger of this situation on your children, which also translates to a bad sign. or starting uncalled fights with them, then it’s a bad sign. So, if her preoccupations make her too busy for her kids, you need to think where she wants to spend that time, instead.

10. She blames you for cheating

scumbag girlfriend caught cheating meme — *Of course, it’s your fault she’s cheating on you.*

This is a sure giveaway and very common among women. If she starts acting jealous, making scenes, checking your phone for messages from other girls or outright blames you for cheating on her for no apparent reason, then you know. She’s just attempting to preserve herself from the guilty thoughts, and casts her mischievous behavior on you, instead.

Conclusion

Humans indulge in predictable behaviors under certain social situations, including cheating. Of course, there are more than 10 signs, and the only one who knows his partner well, is you. If things feel different from before and you two have grown apart, but you can’t really explain why, then it means that either she’s found somebody else or wants to break up with you in order to do so. This is why you should consider trusting your “gut” feeling when it comes to such matters, as it’s a subconscious awareness of your surroundings and your partners, and it won’t misguide you. Consider it like a sixth sense.

What other signs would you like to add? Please, let us know in the comments.

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